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Ladies, let me ask you something: When was the last time you were truly honest with yourself about a guy’s behavior? Like, not “convince yourself it’s fine” honest, but really honest. Yeah, I thought so. Let’s get into it.

Here’s the hard truth: If he likes you, it’s obvious. Period. Men aren’t that complicated. They don’t leave us guessing—they only leave us guessing when they’re not that into us. And I get it, nobody wants to hear that. But knowing the truth? That’s empowering. So, let’s break it down.

First up, he doesn’t make plans with you.
If you’re always the one texting, calling, or arranging meetups, girl, he’s not into you. A man who likes you will move mountains—or at least move his schedule around—to see you. If he’s always “too busy” or “we’ll see,” he’s just not that interested.

Next, he doesn’t ask questions about your life.
If every conversation feels one-sided, and you’re doing all the sharing while he’s just nodding along or, worse, steering it back to himself, take that as a red flag. A guy who likes you will want to know everything—your favorite coffee order, what makes you laugh, and yes, even the cringiest details about your childhood.

Third, he keeps you out of his world.
Let’s be real: If he hasn’t introduced you to his friends, mentioned his family, or even talked about his plans for the weekend, that’s a sign. A guy who’s into you will want to integrate you into his life. If he’s keeping you at arm’s length, it’s probably because he doesn’t see you as long-term potential.

Here’s another big one: He doesn’t prioritize communication.
If you’re waiting days for a reply or getting half-hearted responses, don’t excuse it with “he’s just not a good texter.” Translation: He’s not prioritizing you. Someone who genuinely likes you will make time, whether it’s a quick call, a text, or even a meme that made them think of you.

He’s inconsistent.
One minute, he’s all over you—texting, calling, making plans—and the next, he’s ghosting or pulling back. Sound familiar? That’s emotional whiplash, not affection. If he’s treating you like a part-time option, why are you treating him like a full-time priority?

And this one might sting: He avoids the relationship talk.

If you’ve been seeing each other for months, but he dodges any conversation about where this is going, it’s not because he’s “scared” or “unsure.” It’s because he already knows he doesn’t want more—and he’s hoping you’ll be okay with less.

Here’s the bottom line, ladies: If a guy likes you, you’ll know. He won’t leave you overanalyzing his texts, wondering if he’s busy or just uninterested, or asking your friends for the millionth time, “What do you think he meant by this?” When he’s into you, his actions will say it all.

So, if you’re seeing any of these signs, don’t waste your time trying to change his mind. You deserve someone who’s crazy about you, who shows up, who makes you feel secure—not someone you have to second-guess every other day.

Let’s stop romanticizing mixed signals and start embracing reality. A man’s indifference is not a challenge for you to overcome. It’s a sign for you to walk away with your head held high. Because when you settle for less than you deserve, you’re blocking the path for someone who actually deserves you to come in.

So, the next time you’re wondering if he likes you, remember this: If he does, you’ll feel it. And if he doesn’t, you’ll feel that too. Trust your instincts, set your standards, and never apologize for expecting the bare minimum—which is a man who genuinely likes you.

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